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As the creator and visionary behind the brand, Walt Disney worked hard to ensure that Disneyland’s guests felt ensconced in the “Happiest Place on Earth.”“What would Walt do?”

For decades, that was the magic, pixie-dust question that permeated the Disney empire of animated cartoons, films, toys and theme parks.

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As the creator and visionary behind the brand, Walt Disney worked hard to ensure that Disneyland’s guests felt ensconced in the “Happiest Place on Earth.”

But it didn’t happen at the touch of a fairy godmother’s wand.

Behind the fantasy world, Disney laid out a serious training program for ensuring upbeat, friendly, customer-focused employees who could “create happiness” on the job.

That training program, started in early 1955 as Disneyland was hiring for its Anaheim, Calif., opening, eventually became officially known as “Disney University.”

Today, it’s offered to Disney employees worldwide, as well as to outside companies through the Disney Institute in Florida.

But that training also is spread by former Disney executives such as Doug Lipp, a Fair Oaks, Calif.-based business consultant. He travels the globe conducting Disney-style leadership and customer-service training for CEOs and employees of Fortune 500 firms, universities and hospitals.

In his new book, “Disney U,” Lipp details Disney University’s secrets to its success. What’s made Disney’s management style so envied around the world?

“It’s a balance of head and heart. It’s a balance of rides that don’t break down and Snow White never has a bad day,” Lipp said.

In other words, the details of running a theme park — or any business — need to be in place, along with engaged employees whose positive outlook extends to all customer interaction.

While Walt Disney had exacting standards for everything from cleanliness to friendliness, there was an underlying belief that if employees were happy, it would spill over to their customers.

In Lipp’s book, he details many of the initiatives that “Disney U” embraces. Here’s a sample:

• Walk the park: Disney was known for strolling the grounds to talk with employees.

The debate about how to best address customers and employees consumes valuable time, energy and money in many organizations. Yet, merely changing nouns or verbs won't ensure a culture dedicated to world class customer service or create a motivated and engaged workforceOn one occasion, he showed up at the Fantasyland gondola ride, where an 18-year-old ride operator was loading passengers. Disney had a single question: “How would you improve this ride?”

The startled worker answered candidly: The gondola rooftops were too low and guests frequently hit their heads. Based on that chat, the gondola ceiling heights got changed, Lipp said, and the worker got promoted.

Too many corporate CEOs, Lipp said, forget they need to get out of their offices and walk their workplaces, interacting with employees and customers.

• Keep it human: Customers aren’t “attendance numbers” or “per capita units.”

Lipp said he makes the same point, whether he’s talking with McDonald’s franchise owners or doctors’ groups. “We get so focused on processing hamburgers or processing patients, we forget we’re dealing with humans.”

• Every job matters: From the scuba diver who scrubs the underwater submarine rides at night to the custodian who sweeps Main Street at 3 a.m., Disney believed everyone’s job was equally important.

Lipp recounts how executives became aware that workplace resentments were developing among employees in different job categories. “The maintenance crews viewed the ride operators as ‘button pushers’; the ride operators saw maintenance as ‘bolt-tighteners.’ They didn’t understand each others’ jobs.”

I would love to know your thoughts about this, please leave me a comment and let me know what would YOU do??

This is one of my favorite pictures of all time…

Celebrating my aunt's birthday with one of my favorite family photos

I love it for several reasons:

1.  I’m wearing a Mickey Mouse Shirt and Mouse EarsI was a Disney Fan before I ever KNEW I was a Disney fan!

2.  My grandfather (Grandy) is in it looking young and pretty fly for the ’70′s.

3.  The look on my Aunt Jan’s face is priceless!

My Aunt Jan and Uncle John and I have a very special relationship…as they do with all my cousins.  Big John and Aunt Jan were like another set of parents for all of us!  When Mom and Dad didn’t see us mess up, Jan and John were there to catch us…and usually steer us in the “right” direction.

Of course, they would also turn a blind eye more often than not…but hey, that’s what Aunts and Uncles are for, right?

But my Aunt Jan loved all of us kids (me and my cousins) with helpless abandon, and I think this picture captures that perfectly.  God might not have granted her children of her own, but she DID have a large family of kids to look after!

Today is her birthday…and as usual, we are very far apart.  She lives in Ohio and I’m here in Florida…so this is the best way I could celebrate her day…

I love you Jan and have been blessed with you in my life.  I feel very sad and sorry for people who didn’t have an aunt like you, because they really did miss out on some great memories: The Tweetsie Railroad, “Super Cool” wedding jackets, and even the occasional embarrassing moment with a girlfriend or two.  But those are just some of the memories I hold in my heart.

If we are a reflection of our families, I hope and pray that I am a good reflection of my Aunt: kind, loving, and always there for family.

Happy Birthday Aunt Jan and Thank You!

By the way…that was the LAST time my head EVER fit into a Mickey Mouse Ears Hat!

Are We Too Critical?

January 31, 2013 — Leave a comment

La condition humaine au 21ème siècle NYC.andre via Compfight

I recently saw a documentary about heckling and criticism that made an incredible impact on me and I really started to think about how critical our society has become.  It also reminded me that I need to be more aware of how I talk to people and express my opinions.

When I saw this movie, I was reminded about many of the conversations that I have had with other people and how poorly I communicated my criticism of their work/ideas.  I am not proud of those moments, and looking back with 20/20 vision, I would like to think that I would handle them differently.  But I still make those mistakes from time to time.  I think we all do.

I think that we all have the capacity to forget that the people BEHIND the avatars online or the movies and books we read have emotions.  When the need arises and we have to criticize someone’s work, we can forget that there is a fine line between giving our opinions and crushing someone’s feelings.

Check out this trailer for Heckler (available on Netflix - affiliate link)

I know that are going to be times when you have to provide your opinion on an idea or piece of work, and you should always be honest, but honest criticism does not always have to be harsh or negative.  Any criticism you give should always be tempered with the other person’s emotions in mind.

Simple Solution to Provide Criticism of Someone’s Work / Ideas

1. Always Provide Honest and Direct Feedback

2. Your Feedback Should Also Include Suggestions to Make Improvements

3.  Before and After Your Speak…LISTEN to What the Other Person Has to Say

4.  Follow Up Afterwards to Provides Support and Encouragement

I know that all this MAY sound a little Politically Correct, but if it’s all about relationships we have to work at communicating or dislikes as easily as our likes…and not steamroll over people’s feelings in the process.

Are We TOO Critical?

From Twitter and Facebook to Blogs and Websites, the Internet has allowed millions of people the opportunity to become self-proclaimed critics.  And all too often, to seek polarity and page hits, their reviews go negative.  But it doesn’t have to be this way.

I have a friend, Lou, he is a blogger and he is one of the most positive people I know! His posts are positive, his podcasts are positive and his tweets are positive.  It’s just how he chooses to live.  Even when someone wrongs him, he stays positive.  Trust me on that one…

Our culture THRIVES on negativity.  Listen to the political pundits (on BOTH sides) during the last Presidential Campaign.  When was the last time you heard one of them say “I think that the only way this candidate can win is to go POSITIVE?”

Negativity is everywhere: newspapers, magazines, blog posts, tweets, updates… We have become a harsh society.  Because it’s so easy to be this way.  It takes a lot of work to stay positive and communicate with grace and poise.

It may sound old fashioned, but the Golden Rule still applies…  Treat others as you would like to be treated.  From the living room to the board room, it’s still the best advice around!

It’s Time to Step Back and Think

I think we should all take a few minutes and self-evaluate the conversations we are having and try to find ways to improve the WAY we communicate to our friends, families, and co-workers.

If our culture is to blame for all this negativity…it’s time to change the culture.  We are responsible for the words we say and the way in which we speak.  It’s time to take back the our culture and change the way we communicate.

We must choose to be positive.  I am tired of the negative talk…  It’s all up to us…. Will you join me?

What’s the most negative this you have ever seen or read?

How many friends do you have? I think it’s a fair question that we should all ask ourselves periodically.  I don’t mean Facebook friends or Twiiter followers… I mean real, flesh-and-blood friends that you interact with on a fairly regular schedule?

Out searching for the droids

Kristina Alexanderson via Compfight

I am constantly reminded that the people I tweet/message/text.etc. are real and that I should actually talk to them more than I connect with them digitally.  But as I integrate more and more technology into my daily routine, I struggle with the fact that I have less and less physical or often emotional contact with the people I care about.

Is this something that you struggle with?

As I grow older, I have begun to realize how important my family and friends are to me.  After the recent accident (I fell 12 feet and landed on concrete) I feel much more passionately about the relationships I have in my life and value them even more.  I guess the fear that I might have died woke me up to some apathy I had towards my friends.

Is this a problem for you?  I would love to know how you balance your “real” relationships versus the “virtual” ones.  What do you do to connect with people on a deeper level?  I would love to know.  It seems cold, in light of this post, but please leave me comment or even email me!

If it’s all about relationships, in today’s mile-a-minute culture how do we have real, vibrant friendships?

I saw this video recently and it made a profound impact on me.  I’d love to know what you think about it.

Celebrate what you want to see more of.

Tom Peters